Many want to be the best friend, but who is really a best friend? Are they actually really acquaintances?
A best friend, by me, is a person one get to know slowly and one build trust over time. With honesty, love, caring and being open one get tight. A best friend tell the truth even if it is bad for him/her self. A best friend is caring about the others inner feelings in a honest way. A best friend does not twist the truth to save face. A best friend does not twist the truth and make you look bad to others. A best friend show you respect by being honest. A best friend does not linger away from its responsibility by lying.
Best friends come from honesty, respect, and co-acting in friendship. It is actually not only how much one do together, but more the quality of the togetherness.
Many people claim to be ones best friend through life, but really
how many are really a true friend?
Some people that want to claim being your friend,
Lie, and then say that people do not stand to hear the truth.
Truth is, they are to weak to stand for all and tell the truth.
They are lame, spineless cowards, with no respect for the other person or the friendship.
My dad used to say:
Those who think others are stupid,
They are the most stupid.
I believe he was really right about this. All through life I have experiensed such people, seen through them and seen their true ways.
Those who lie think they can fool others.
They are so stupid they do not see that others see through their arrogans.
I only hope they will meet themselves in the door,
and enjoy their own personality, and the pain they put on others by their anti-social behavioural betrayal.
The lier is more of a best friend to themselves. At least they think they are. They lie to save themselves. They loose their friends. But at the same time they loose some of themselves in the process too.
They loose the love from a friend.