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Best friend or acquaintance?


Best friend?

Many want to be the best friend, but who is really a best friend? Are they actually really acquaintances?

A best friend, by me, is a person one get to know slowly and one build trust over time. With honesty, love, caring and being open one get tight. A best friend tell the truth even if it is bad for him/her self. A best friend is caring about the others inner feelings in a honest way. A best friend does not twist the truth to save face. A best friend does not twist the truth and make you look bad to others. A best friend show you respect by being honest. A best friend does not linger away from its responsibility by lying.

Best friends come from honesty, respect, and co-acting in friendship. It is actually not only how much one do together, but more the quality of the togetherness.

Many people claim to be ones best friend through life, but really
how many are really a true friend?

Some people that want to claim being your friend,
Lie, and then say that people do not stand to hear the truth.
Truth is, they are to weak to stand for all and tell the truth.
They are lame, spineless cowards, with no respect for the other person or the friendship.

My dad used to say:
Those who think others are stupid,
They are the most stupid.

I believe he was really right about this. All through life I have experiensed such people, seen through them and seen their true ways.

Those who lie think they can fool others.
They are so stupid they do not see that others see through their arrogans.

I only hope they will meet themselves in the door,
and enjoy their own personality, and the pain they put on others by their anti-social behavioural betrayal.

The lier is more of a best friend to themselves. At least they think they are. They lie to save themselves. They loose their friends. But at the same time they loose some of themselves in the process too.

They loose the love from a friend.


Author: Annelie

I like canoeing, photographing, friends, movies, food, humor, and going on trips. I dislike rudeness, dishonesty, violence, nastyness, and people not caring for others. I do not drink much, I do not smoke and I do not do drugs. I love friends who are kind to me and stick with me. If you want to give me a gift, the best gift is to stop smoking and stop using fragranced products. Then you give me health and that dear friend, is the best gift a person can get. It is a gift of love. I got asthma and I am hearing disabled.

4 thoughts on “Best friend or acquaintance?

  1. Hello! I couidn´t agree more. The words “best friend” can have different meanings to
    different people.
    I had a girlfriend once that called me her best friend and lover all the time.
    One day that wasn´t worth anything at all. In a period of 4-5 weeks she went
    from a desire to get married to just dump me. So you never know what to expect
    from people you believe is closest in the whole world.

    I saw your photos from your vacation. They were very nice.
    You done quite a lot during a short time.


  2. Many people are not capable of true friendship, particularly in these times in which we are now living and that is why discernment is very important…I think best friends are those who open their hearts and minds and lives completely to one another; in a way becoming one. It is an intimacy; in which trust, mutual respect, and compassion are essential.


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