Fresh air does not smell of fragrance

Frisk luft lukter ikke av parfyme.


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Netthets

Netthets, en uskyldig uttryksmåte og utblåsning eller sjikanering og fordømmande til offentlig skam?

Netthets er angrep på personer eller yrkesgrupper, det er ille nok om den er sann, men er verre om den er tatt ut av situasjon og løgn. Overdrift, og enda verre stor ovverdrift er å ikke holde seg til sannheten, det er det samme som å lyge. Om du deler og liker slik er du ikke bedre enn dem som skrev det opprinnelig.

Jeg mener at dem som driver netthets og trolling ikke er verd skitten under skoene mine.

Monica Lewinsky har sagt det bedre enn mange andre. Mennesker som driver med slik sjikanering, mobbing, og hets mot enkeltmennesker og yrkesgrupper eier ikke hjerte, de er hatefulle, aggressive negative sjeler. La oss ikke gi dem luft slik at de kan tale, La oss fremme et bedre miljø online.

Det skjer ikke bare online. Ekle personer som bestemmer seg for å spre løgner om enkeltpesoner og yrkesgrupper skjer også.

Postet i minne av troll i all alminndelighet, og med en tanke på spesielle personer i minne.

Straffeloven
“Bestemmelsene §§ 227 og 390a er særlig aktuelle, da disse omtaler eventuell straff ved å true, sjikanerer eller på annen måte fornærme noen ved ytringer.

Åndsverkloven
Åndsverkloven § 45c er særlig aktuell. Denne snakker om begrensninger rundt publisering og gjengivning av bilder av andre mennesker. Dette er relatert til opphavsrett:
” Etter åndsverkslovens § 45c er det i utgangspunktet forbud mot å publisere fotografi som avbilder en person, uten at det foreligger samtykke fra den avbildede. Fra denne hovedregelen gjelder en rekke unntak, jf. § 45c, første ledd bokstav a-e.”

Strafferett
Strafferettslig lavalder i Norge er 15 år, jf. straffeloven § 46.
Sjikane: “Den som ved skremmende eller plagsom opptreden eller annen hensynsløs atferd krenker en annens fred eller som medvirker hertil straffes med bøter eller fengsel inntil 2 år, se straffelovens § 390a”.
Bestemmelsen omfatter trusler, enten de er fremsatt ansikt til ansikt, per sms eller annet medium. Sms-trusler er like alvorlig som andre trusler.” Medietilsynet

/ Annelie

(Kilde: http://www.dubestemmer.no og http://www.datatilsynet.no)


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Stop Bullying!

Stop being a Bully!

spiteful Hard Words, hate speach, mocking around, pushing, threatening, lying about someone, spreading rumors, messing With someones Things and life, abuse and so on hurt other People. Some get really depressed, have to go on sick leave, can’t work or go to School, and some even kill themselves.

I have myself experienced being bullied, both at School and at work. People spreading rumors, lying, making hate speach, and are being cruel. They do their best being awful. And if being hurtful is what You aimed, you succeded. But You have not won. What you succeded doing was make a mess in my life, and in addition to that You succeded being disliked.

Words and bad behaviour can be sharper than a knife. What You do have a impact and have a consequens for others. It can also hurt the relationship between other People. Sometimes the Third party get hurt and the relation between the person hurt and the Third party.

badeball Sometimes I Wonder what kind of brainless People those are going on like that hoping to hurt others? They must really have a IQ of bath ball. You know the plastic ones With only air in it. It can not be any much more than that, since they have not the ability to see longer than their own little corner of the world. Their mean hurtful little corner of  world. I mean, what if it was You who does this who was the target of Your abuse? What would it be like if someone did it to You? Think before You spread Your stink around, and think of the wider consequens Your action could cause. If you hurt someone badly enough they might actually take the step to kill themselves. And what if You were the reason they did it? You know, there is something called karma. What goes around, comes around. I personally often wish You meet yourself in the door. Maybe that would make You know yourself a bit better?

I also often read about People getting hurt by others. And I have also all to often experienced People who in their spiteful little lives need to push other People around to feel they are strong, in the centre of attention. and the need to make a point even for the smallest little thing. Grow up and be an adult about it.

Today I read an article about Simon Brooks, 15 years old, who killed himself due to bullying. I have also read about a man in Sweden who was bullied at work and killed himself. Bus drivers are also often target of different passengers pitiful and spiteful little lives, and the need to “take that one” for what he or she supposedly did or did not do, or even have not done at all. Some customer make a fantasy story up and address it to the employer or other arena to get revenge. Sometimes it is for the smallest Things, sometimes it is even the customers own fault they were talked to. I have experienced it myself, and I know of stories told by People I have worked With telling about customers lying to their bosses to make a mess and hurt the employee. Do You actually know how small You are? The lowest of the lowest, if You ask me. If You have to complaint at least be Nice about it. and at least have the decency to be honest.

Really, be mature, honest and grow up. Only small-minded People bully, lie, revenge and try to be hurtful.

Simon Brooks, 15 was bullied at School. And he killed himself.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2597072/I-cope-Schoolboy-left-heartbreaking-goodbye-letter-mother-four-days-killed-amid-claims-bullied.html

Lasse Persson, 53 was bullied at work,  He looked for help With the management, but they did not help. He committed suicide. The management are now sentenced in Swedish Court as responsible for the suicide. (link in Swedish)
http://www.tv2.no/2014/02/21/nyheter/utenriks/5342519

Those who do not kill themselves maybe get depressed, get in such a bad condition they have to go on sick leave, some have to change Schools or work (either from needing a New environment or they get sacked because of the lies).

Also read
https://anneliemolin.wordpress.com/2014/02/22/stopphatprat-stop-bullying-and-stop-cyberbullying/

Maybe You do not like what You read today? Well, at least it is the truth, even if it is the harsh truth. If You feel I just hit You like the hammer on the head of the nail, then You have a great deal of self work to do.

If You do not like someone, just leave them alone. If someone leaves You and You feel hurt from it, just leave them alone. If You do not like what someone do, just leave and leave them alone.

Revenge, lies and spitefulness only makes You a spiteful and pityful person.

Grow up and be mature about it.


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#StoppHatprat – Stop bullying and Stop Cyberbullying

Stop hate speach!

People should think twice before opening their mouth at others. It does not matter if you show yourself or if you do it secretly. You are standing in front of a real person With real feelings. And what you do hurt them.

Lying, being grim, talk nasty, being harsh, insensitive, shun People out, being aggressive, insult, abuse, threat, and so on and you are a bad person doing so.

When you are having fun or are being revengeful to other People, you are by me committing a crime. What you are doing is psychological abuse.

These People have committed suicide due to bullying and cyberbullying:

Hope Witsell 1996-2009 took her live after being bullied and cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/hope-witsell.html

Kenneth Weishuhn Jr. 1997-2012 took his live after being bullied and cyberbullied
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/kenneth-weishuhn-jr-1997-2012.html

Amanda Todd 1996 – 2012 took her live after being bullied and cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/amanda-todd.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=vOHXGNx-E7E

Hannah Smith 1999-2013  took her live after being bullied and cyberbullied. She was was found hanged following bullying by internet trolls on ask.fm.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/hannah-smith.html

Phoebe Prince (15) took her live after being bullied and cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/phoebe-prince.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24G2Yl7Gzxw&feature=related

Rachael Neblett 1989-2006 took her live after being bullied and cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/rachael-neblett.html

Grace K. McComas 1996-2012  took her live after being bullied and cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/grace-k-mccomas-1997-2012.html

Jessica Logan 1990-2008 took her live after being bullied and cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/jessica-logan-1990-2008.html

Ryan Halligan 1989 – 2003 took his live after being bullied and cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/ryan-halligan-1989-2003.html

Tyler Clementi 1992-2010 took his live after being bullied and cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/tyler-clementi-1992-2010-puresight.html

Sarah Lynn Butler 1997-2009 took her live after being cyberbullied.
http://www.puresight.com/Real-Life-Stories/sarah-lynn-butler.html

Rebecca Sedwick 2001-2013 took her live after being cyberbullied.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/16/us/felony-charges-for-2-girls-in-suicide-of-bullied-12-year-old-rebecca-sedwick.html?_r=0
http://abcnews.go.com/US/mom-suicide-tween-rebecca-sedwick-sue-responsible/story?id=21003190

Rehtaeh Parsons 1996-2013 She killed herself after being raped by 4 tenagers who then bullied her sending Pictures of here to many People.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/09/rehtaeh-parsons-girl-dies-suicide-rape-canada_n_3045033.html

Daniel Perry 1996-2013 killed himself after being threatened,  targeted in a webcam blackmail plot, and cyberbullied.
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/daniel-perry-suicide-teenage-blackmail-2172896
http://news.sky.com/story/1129255/daniel-perry-suicide-over-web-blackmail

13 year old girl from Kumla Sweden took her own life after being cyberbullied. She had been filmed, photographed and ill spoken to online. Images and photos spread online.
http://www.vg.no/nyheter/utenriks/artikkel.php?artid=10108313

Charlotte Dawson 1967-2014 killed herself after being cyberbullied.
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/feb/22/charlotte-dawson-found-dead-sydney-home
http://www.expressen.se/noje/stjarnan-mobbades-pa-natet—nu-ar-hon-dod/

Lasse Persson 1957-2010 Was bullied at work, He looked for help With the management, they did not help He committed suicide. They are now sentenced in Swedish Court as responsible for the suicide.
http://www.aftonbladet.se/nyheter/article18392646.ab
http://www.tv2.no/2014/02/21/nyheter/utenriks/5342519#.UwjITHmYa-1

There are a hundred ways of saying things, the good and the bad and troublesome. It is nevertheless preferable honesty, civility, constructive positive guiding and kindness in the same sentence.

I have myself been bullied through life. At School they did not let me in the playing, I was never asked for, rarely invited to parties, called fat, I was much alone. As an adult I have been lied about, I have been lied to, rumor spreading, cyberbullied, herrassed, not helped by the management, talked bad to and so on. It is NOT ok.

Stop hate speach!

In Norway have started the European campaign #StoppHatprat
www.stopphatprat.no
www.facebook.com/stopphatprat?fref=ts

European site Hate Speach Watch
http://nohatespeechmovement.org/